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Surviving the Teen Years: Insights from Amy Betters-Midtvedt

On this episode of the Brainy Moms podcast, we dive into the emotional and practical aspects of parenting teens, focusing on the importance of flexibility, trust, and communication. Dr. Amy and Dr. Jody interview educator, author, and mom of 5 Amy Betters-Midtvedt who highlights the challenges faced by parents as their kids grow, the necessity of establishing boundaries with technology, and the value of teaching effective friendship skills to create healthy social connections.

We discuss being flexible in parenting teenagers, navigating social media and privacy for teens, understanding and coaching friendships among teens, managing household responsibilities collaboratively, creating a bank of trust based on individual needs, and managing the emotions around the transition to an empty nest.

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Mindset Swaps to Skyrocket Your Joy with guest Dr. Wendy O’Connor

Amy Moore, PhD

On this episode of the Brainy Moms podcast, Dr. Amy and Sandy interview Dr. Wendy O’Connor, a Stanford-trained positive psychologist. After facing burnout and the whirlwind of transitioning into motherhood with three children in 15 months, Dr. Wendy transformed her career path and embraced the vibrant world of positive psychology. In this episode, she shares her journey and how she helps women harness self-trust and evidence-based methods to design lives filled with joy and purpose. Explore her unique approach of making “power swaps” to enhance happiness, starting with transforming FOMO into JOMO.

We talk about maintaining harmony in relationships while staying true to your values and priorities. We also discuss strategies to identify what quality time means for you and how to balance these personal needs with the expectations of others. Learn how to break free from the cycle of perpetual agreement, especially for those who struggle with people-pleasing tendencies, and establish boundaries that honor your authentic self without sacrificing connections with loved ones.

Finally, we talk about replacing criticism with curiosity and self-doubt with self-compassion. Learn how to take empowered actions that align with your values and navigate the pitfalls of overthinking.

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ENCORE EPISODE! Parenting a Differently Wired Kid with guest Debbie Reber

Amy Moore, PhD

This conversation Dr. Amy and Dr. Jody had with Debbie Reber felt like a lifeline for many of us raising neurodivergent children and teens. Debbie is the author of the book, “Differently Wired: A Parent’s Guide to Raising an Atypical Child with Confidence and Hope” and the founder of Tilt Parenting. Offering insights, personal stories, and guidance for listeners who may be grappling with insecurities around parenting a differently wired child, Debbie provided comfort—and useful tips—to help us all gain perspective.

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Sensory Processing Differences and Difficulties: Tools for Parents with guest Dr. Eva Lassey

Amy Moore, PhD

Ever felt overwhelmed by the sheer range of sensory experiences your child navigates daily? On this episode of the Brainy Moms podcast, Dr. Amy and Sandy discuss the world of sensory processing with Dr. Eva Lassey, a doctor of physical therapy and the visionary behind Dr. Sensory. Through her personal and professional journey, Dr. Lassey breaks down the often-confusing landscape of sensory processing disorders, helping us discern between sensory seekers and avoiders. Her insights equip parents and caregivers with the tools needed to support and understand their children’s unique sensory needs, challenging traditional perceptions of neurodiversity and the idea of “normal.”

Join us as we explore the impact of sensory processing issues on motor skills development and social interactions in children. Dr. Lassey shares practical strategies for fostering physical development through simple, engaging activities that can easily be incorporated into everyday routines. From bear walks to crab crawls, we talk about the crucial role of movement and play, especially in an age where technology sometimes hinders our children’s physical growth. Learn how the right balance of core strength, coordination, and active play can transform a child’s confidence and ability to connect with peers.

Finally, we discuss the benefits of sensory tools and fidget toys in managing focus and anxiety, featuring insights from experts like neuroscientist Dr. Christina Ledbetter. Whether it’s weighted blankets or chewable necklaces, these tools offer emotional comfort and can ground the mind, enhancing concentration, and providing a sense of calm. Dr. Lassey emphasizes the importance of trial and error to find the perfect fit for individual sensory needs, illustrating how these aids can create a supportive environment for children and adults alike. Our episode concludes with a heartfelt discussion on gratitude and the ongoing journey of supporting families in navigating sensory challenges.

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The Art of Calm and Intentional Parenting with guest Holly Swenson

Amy Moore, PhD

On this episode of the Brainy Moms podcast, discover the transformative power of conscious parenting as Dr. Amy and Sandy talk with with Holly Swenson, an award-winning author, nurse, and mother of four. Holly shares her groundbreaking approach to parenting, inspired by principles from her latest book, “Stop, Drop, Grow, and Glow.” Learn how the “five rights of parenting,” derived from nursing practices, can foster deeper connections and holistic wellness for both parents and children. Holly’s insights promise to reshape your understanding of parental presence and intentionality.

Explore the intricate balance of power and responsibility in parenting today. Holly and we delve into the art of embracing human vulnerability, where apologies and accountability become tools for teaching valuable life lessons to children. Understand the profound impact of personal well-being on parenting efficacy, as we highlight the critical role of self-compassion amidst stress and sleep deprivation. We shed light on the evolving dynamics across generations, advocating for a nurturing yet authoritative relationship with your children.

Uncover practical strategies to maintain harmony and resilience in your parenting journey. Holly’s “Stop, Drop, Grow, and Glow” framework offers a blueprint for managing stress and emotions, promoting mindfulness and self-awareness. From setting firm yet empathetic boundaries to distinguishing reactivity from responsiveness, this episode is packed with actionable advice. Embrace the power of love as a guiding force, and learn how to harness mindfulness techniques to transform challenges into growth opportunities for you and your family.

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Parenting a Teen Through Depression and Self-Harm with guest Katie May

Amy Moore, PhD

On this episode of the Brainy Moms podcast, therapist Katie May joins Dr. Amy and Sandy to discuss concepts from her book, “You’re On Fire, It’s Fine: Effective Strategies for Parenting Teens with Self-Destructive Behaviors.” They talk about how to have conversations with your “fire feeler” in a way that doesn’t come across as judgmental or cause them to lose trust in your relationship. You’ll hear advice on what and when it might be appropriate to share your own experiences from young adulthood, as well as why punishments like taking away their phone or grounding them may do more harm than good. Hear specific language you can use when talking to your teen about your concerns and why being a “good enough” parent is better than striving for perfection. Don’t miss this important but upbeat conversation about connecting with your teen and helping them through some of the toughest times in their young adult life.

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Dysregulated Emotions in Parenting: Breaking the Cycle with guest Dr. Amber Thornton

Amy Moore, PhD

On this episode of the Brainy Moms podcast, Dr. Amy and Sandy welcome Dr. Amber Thornton, a licensed clinical psychologist who specializes in parent mental health and well-being. She shares tips from her new book, “A Parent’s Guide to Self-Regulation: A Practical Framework for Breaking the Cycle of Dysregulation and Mastering Emotions for Parents and Children” including how parents can help themselves and also co-regulate their children’s emotions. Tune in to learn more about common “hot spots” (such as bedtime or getting out the door on time), addressing your own childhood emotional needs that may not have been met, and ways to identify and address your own dysregulation. This episode offers a good reminder to parents who may be struggling that you’re not alone, you don’t have to be perfect, and there are tools to help you become a better parent for yourself and your children.

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Pediatricians Share Why Kids Need Time in Nature with guests Dr. Pooja Tandon and Dr. Danette Glassy

Amy Moore, PhD

On this episode of The Brainy Moms podcast, Dr. Amy and Sandy welcome TWO experts to discuss the benefits of getting your kids outside into nature. Researcher and pediatrician, Dr. Pooja Tandon, and pediatrician and leader of Project Nature, Dr. Danette Glassy, join us to talk about ideas from their new book, “Digging Into Nature: Outdoor Adventures for Happier and Healthier Kids.” You’ll learn about the benefits to mental, emotional, and physical health including concepts like forest bathing, phytoncides, attention restoration, and microbes. Find out what researchers have discovered about spending time outside beyond just physical exercise and why “green play” is growing in popularity around the world. Don’t miss this uplifting and informative episode about the value of spending time among the trees, dirt, sand, and water!

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Insomnia & Sleep Solutions with guest Dr. Daniella Marchetti

Amy Moore, PhD

Do you struggle to fall asleep, stay asleep, or wake up feeling rested? If so, then you won’t want to miss this information-packed episode of the Brainy Moms podcast with health psychologist Dr. Daniella Marchetti who specializes in behavioral sleep medicine. In this conversation with Dr. Amy and Sandy, Dr. Marchetti shares the truth about melatonin, nightmares, room temperature, white noise machines, sleep trackers, and even mattresses! Learn how to improve your sleep without getting a sleep study. If you think you know all there is to know about sleep, tune in for this interview with a sleep medicine expert who is “in the know” about how to wake up feeling rested.

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Raising Healthy Kids: Avoiding Toxins in Foods, Skincare Products, Detergents, and More with guest David Steinman

Amy Moore, PhD

On this episode of the Brainy Moms podcast, David Steinman, author of the book “Raising Healthy Kids: Protecting Your Children from Hidden Chemical Toxins,” talks to Dr. Amy and Sandy about his extensive knowledge from decades as an environmental journalist and activist. You’ll learn which foods are particularly toxic, what to avoid in skincare products, shampoos, and detergents, and how these chemicals are harming our kids. From their impact on everything from IQ and sex hormones to the liver and the environment, these toxins are poisoning many aspects our lives—but there are things we can do about it! Don’t miss this information-rich episode with a special after party conversation to learn helpful tips when making decisions about the products you consume and use.

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